Christmas Through Their Eyes

Supporting Young Kiwis Through Life’s Toughest Challenges

This Christmas, we’re asking you to see the world the way grieving children do, and help give them the support they’re longing for.

Child Grief Awareness Week reminds us that children feel loss deeply, and Christmas can make
that grief even harder. Your kindness can become the safe hands they need.

Real Words. Real Grief.

When a child experiences the death of someone they love, Christmas no longer looks the same.The lights feel brighter, but more dim at the same time. The rooms feel louder and too quiet. The traditions feel emptier. These are the quiet thoughts kids carry — often alone.

Why This Campaign Matters

Christmas is a time when grief hits hardest.

Children supported by Kenzie’s Gift often show us the quiet ways grief settles in at Christmas, the moments when time seems to pause for them while everyone else moves forward.

These small glimpses inspired this campaign: an invitation for Aotearoa to see Christmas through their eyes, and to remember that every child grieves differently.

Your support ensures children get regular, ongoing therapy with trained child-psychotherapists, so they don’t walk through grief alone.

Meet Maia — and See Her Christmas Through Her Eyes

Maia is an 8-year-old navigating her first Christmas since her mum died. Her story is built from real experiences of tamariki we’ve supported. Some moments are raw. Some are quietly beautiful. All are human.

Your Kindness Changes Lives

Your ongoing gift helps a child feel supported through grief, during Christmas and throughout the year.

Give Tamariki the Support They Deserve

A monthly donation provides ongoing therapy. It’s the single most effective support for grieving children. Your kindness becomes the safe hands they’re wishing for.

How Your Gift Helps

Therapy

Specialist grief therapy for children and teens.

Whānau Support

Tools and guidance for parents coping with their own grief while caring for their children.

Resources

Books, guides, and mental-health support created just for tamariki.

This Christmas, Be the Light Children Look For

Grief doesn’t take a break for the holidays.

Your generosity means a child will have someone to talk to. Someone trained to help them make sense of the feelings they don’t have words for.

"I'll be eternally grateful for the support of Kenzie's Gift and what it has meant for my daughter letting her be the bright bubbly girl you meet now"
"Kenzie's Gift interceded when my daughter needed it most"
"Thank you for being a lifeline. Having a dedicated professional to talk to and work through my immense grief has been a huge comfort."
"When you lose a child, your world is turned upside down. Having someone step in and provide support to their grieving sibling is nothing short of life-saving."
"Nic's idea was one I just couldn't say no to. What she has done, and what Kenzie's Gift do for children, is very special."

Our Supporters

As a charity, we don’t receive any government funding and rely on the amazing generosity of our supporters to keep our essential mental health services running.

Lindsay Foundation
Potter Masonic Trust
Linda Simmons
The Lion Foundation
ANZ
Sargood Bequest
DV Bryant Trust
JB Hi-Fi
Dragon Community Trust
BlueSky Community Trust
David Levene Foundation
Hugo
Foundation North
Christine Taylor Foundation
Otago Community Trust
We Care Community Trust
Pub Charity
Linda Simmons (Bayleys Residential Sales)
JM Thompson Charitable Trust
Perpetual Guardian
Lotto
Milestone Foundation
TECT
Public Trust
Royston Health Trust
Four Winds Foundation
John Ilott Charitable Trust
COGS
Christchurch Casino
Aotearoa Gaming Trust
Lister Presbyterian Health Trust
Louise and Patrick Emmett Murphy Foundation (Public Trust)
T G Macarthy Trust (Public Trust)
Rata Foundation
Marsh Insurance
SkyCity Community Trust
Trillian Trust
Jones Foundation