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#DearGrief 2018 summary

With many mātātahi (young people) struggling in the aftermath of a loss, two young tāne who have lost their siblings, Conor Burling and Luka Wolfgram, are championing a #DearGrief campaign to start the conversation about grief.

Our #DearGrief campaign began in 2018 as a way to open up the conversation about grief. Read more about our 2018 campaign, including some poignant messages to grief from young Kiwis.

Everyone addresses grief in a different way. For some it is a journal. For others, it is throwing themselves into a marathon or a mountain climb. For Conor, more than a decade after the loss of his beloved sister Kenzie, it is a tattoo he helped design, so that she will ‘always be there by my side’.

With many mātātahi / young people struggling in the aftermath of a loss, two young tāne / men who have lost their siblings, Conor Burling and Luka Wolfgram, are championing a #DearGrief campaign to start the conversation about grief. 

It starts with 2 simple words, Dear Grief...

#DearGrief is about sharing what you would like to say to grief and the different ways we deal with grief. Twelve years after the loss of his 3 year old sister, Kenzie, Conor is sharing his #DearGrief story through his memorial tattoo he had done in her honour. 

“I always think of Kenzie and I wanted something to show how she is part of me and I carry her with me everyday. Living with grief is tough and it changes you, but we can help each other by sharing messages so people know they’re not alone. That’s what #DearGrief is about,” says Conor. 

Bereavement in childhood is surprisingly common, with 1 in 20 mātātahi / young people facing the loss of a loved one before they’re 18. Grief brings with it difficult and challenging emotions, including sadness, anger, loneliness, confusion, and guilt. 

13-year-old Luka Wolfgram lost his younger brother, Kosta to childhood cancer and he has coped by creating short films about his journey with grief. Luka says, “I feel so hurt and so furious that Kosta died…all the nevers are heartbreaking, but Kosta inspires me to do good in this world, that’s why I share our story to hopefully help others.” 

13-year-old Luka Wolfgram shares his message to #DearGrief

#DearGrief features on Seven Sharp